Brotherhood of Bald People Worldwide

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

Each week, local "women about town" Anjl Rodee and Marilynn Mee answer OnMilwaukee.com readers' questions about relationships, romance and whatever else is on your mind.

Dear Anjl & Marilynn,

I have a question regarding men's hairstyles. I am balding and decided four years ago to shave my head completely bald for a cleaner look. I received a lot of positive attention from women at the time. However, over the last year or so I have noticed more men with longer hair and women paying less attention to bald-headed men. Is bald out and long hair in?

Read their answer here: http://www.onmilwaukee.com/buzz/articles/baldsexy.html

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

One thing we've tried to make clear whenever possible is that there are options for styling thinning hair. One of them is to shave it all off and if you're ready to consider that option, then this article may offer you a little inspiration.

(If you're still looking for other styling options, check out the articles in the category "Bald Head Styling Tips".)

Men... Are you (or someone you know) dealing with thinning hair? Bald spots? Excessive hair loss? Male patterned baldness?

They've found a cure for baldness... It's called acceptance!

At least that's the way Jim felt when he started losing his hair several years ago.

Following is a step-by-step photo collage of the process Jim went through the day he decided to shave his head and start living life as a bald man... by choice.

http://thefuntimesguide.com/2007/02/tips_for_shaving_head_bald.php

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

We recently made some revisions to our "Confucius Says" design. T-shirts sporting this design will be available in the online store soon. Take a look:

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

Submitted by "Bald Jedi"

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

Another great article from askmen.com about balding:

Michael Jordan made it cool for black men and Bruce Willis paved the way for white guys. When it comes to style, hair is not only the main thing on your head, but also the main thing on your mind, especially when your hair begins to disappear. If you're losing your hair, where do you turn for good advice? Unfortunately, most of the information out there is from companies trying to sell you quick-fix solutions. Find out when it's your time to take it all off and how to do so in style.

Click Here to continue reading this article:

http://www.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip_150/188_fashion_advice.html

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

One of the guys on the forum found this today. Thanks Griz!

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

More great info from askmen.com: 

Men have this illusion that "hairiness" is a very manly attribute, and that lack of hair is effeminate. It's ironic, then, that the exact same hormone attributed to men -- testosterone -- is the culprit that causes balding in men!

In any case, balding men need to realize that having no hair on the crown is actually regarded as sexy by many women. In most cases, men become depressed with their looks primarily for other physical reasons, and blame their unhappiness on the hair loss instead. Therefore, before you feel all down and blue about losing your hair, make sure the real issue is not about having gained some weight instead.

Women are first attracted to a man's abs and butt, rather than his crown. The sooner you start feeling better about yourself, the sooner you'll start feeling more like a man.

Source: http://www.askmen.com/sports/health/21b_mens_health.html

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

I found this list of "myths" on the askmen.com website:

1. Wearing hats: Wear all the hats that you want, for as long as you want. However, just make sure to let your scalp breathe for at least seven hours a day (don't sleep with a hat on, genius).

2. Using hair products: Hair gels and sprays contain no active ingredients that promote male baldness, so don't worry about using them. If you are still worried, then start using gels that are more natural-based and contain ingredients such as chamomile and Aloe Vera.

3. Trauma: Going through a traumatic experience will not make your hair fall out.

4. Playing with your hair: Twiddling your fingers and always playing with your hair does not cause premature baldness. If you do this though, you should seriously consider stopping; it might be a sign of stress and nervousness. But don't worry, she can play with your hair all night long.

5. Viral infections: There are no viral infections that cause direct balding. Some powerful medications, however, may be culprits of hair loss since they kill off the hair's roots. In any case, always consult your physician.

6. Sun bathers: If you're a sun dweller, don't worry; it will not harm your precious follicles. Most of your hair already protects your scalp from the sun's dangerous UV rays. Normally though, the sun's radiation could play a part in thinning a person's arm and leg hair.

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

I found this great article in the St. Paul Pioneer Press (MN): 

From Chrome Domes to Hip Heads, More Men Daring to Go Bald

By: Jesse Tinley 

For 32 years, George Sapir and his hairpiece were inseparable.

The hairpiece, which he'd glue to his crown each morning, was the source of his public confidence and his private shame.

His wife of many years and, later, a longtime girlfriend both failed to persuade Sapir to part with the piece. The idea of facing the world without it seemed frightening and out of the question.

Finally, on a warm June night this year, a new girlfriend persuaded the 65-year-old attorney from Chesterland to lose the wiglet.

He peeled off the phony hair and trimmed his real strands down to a shadow. He nervously stepped out into the world as a new man.

"I remember it was very difficult the first time I went out in public without my hairpiece," Sapir says. "I felt almost naked."

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator 

Just before the holidays, I was able to deliver our hairless princess t-shirts for the first time along with several other t-shirts to Minneapolis Children's Hospital. I just received a note from a staff member who works with the families:

"Dear Julie and BOB group,"

"On behalf of the amazing families dealing with childhood cancer, I wish to express my sincere graditude for your wonderful and creative t-shirts. Hairy humor in the midst of cancer treatment is so important. Thank you for bringing awareness that bald is beautiful."

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

One of our mods placed a shortcut to this video in the forum. Most definitely "Some Girls Do":

Julie Olson, Mission Coordinator

We've had some discussions on the forum regarding bald men and facial hair, so I thought I'd put this link in for the guys. The consensus seems to be that a little facial hair is a good look for men - whether bald or not. Here are few "tips" for keeping that facial hair lookin' good:

http://www.askmen.com/fashion/trends/16_fashion_men.html